20 year old woman narrates how she manages to maintain a relationship with four partners
Fri Dec 06, 2019 09:37:am Lifestyle
3.4K By Afam Jude Offor
Tory Ojeda, aged 20, a polyamorous woman with four partners, has become pregnant by one of her lovers, saying they will, however, all raise the baby together.
The 20-year-old woman met her first partner Marc, when he was 18, in high school, before she entered into a relationship with Travis, the second lover, two months after, Daily Mail reports. Not long after she met those two, she fell in love with their mutual friends, Ethan (22) and Christopher (22). Though she is in an open relationship with her four partners, she is the only one who has many romantic lovers, adding that she would love if her boyfriends can go after other women too. She said that going after other partners is necessary because dividing time between all of them as the only woman in the relationship is very difficult. “Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner. 'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult. “I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice,” she said. The four partners all have their own bedrooms under the house they live in together, but they still take turns to spend nights with Tory on her bed. Speaking about jealousy among the men, the partners said that it happens in a healthy manner as they all just have to talk about it among themselves in a relaxed state to deal with it. “There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other,” Ethan said. Travis, on the other hand, spoke about how talking about how they feel helps them to understand each other better. “There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person,” he said.
The 20-year-old woman met her first partner Marc, when he was 18, in high school, before she entered into a relationship with Travis, the second lover, two months after, Daily Mail reports. Not long after she met those two, she fell in love with their mutual friends, Ethan (22) and Christopher (22). Though she is in an open relationship with her four partners, she is the only one who has many romantic lovers, adding that she would love if her boyfriends can go after other women too. She said that going after other partners is necessary because dividing time between all of them as the only woman in the relationship is very difficult. “Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner. 'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult. “I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice,” she said. The four partners all have their own bedrooms under the house they live in together, but they still take turns to spend nights with Tory on her bed. Speaking about jealousy among the men, the partners said that it happens in a healthy manner as they all just have to talk about it among themselves in a relaxed state to deal with it. “There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other,” Ethan said. Travis, on the other hand, spoke about how talking about how they feel helps them to understand each other better. “There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person,” he said.
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